SELF CONFIDENCE

This is a pill that every aspiring leader must take. In fact, as a change agent you need an even extra dosage. Here's why, in every society, change is always not easy to be accepted by everyone, and one cannot deny the place of innovation in today's leadership. If you put everything together, it means you will always come up with new things, and people will always want to make you feel wrong, that's why you need the extra dosage of confidence, to stand for what you believe in and make others come on board

Self confidence is not particularly in born, you need to continously remind yourself of who you are. It takes a lot of conscious effort to be self confident. 

So, Dear you!!! You think you can never be confident again, your whole world is crashing before you, you never seem to get anything right. In fact, right now, you are just a number. Rise up and surround yourself with positive energy. Ask yourself, "What's the worst that can happen?" . The moment you answer that question, come up with a back up plan, and let life go on. You can't use your past to judge your future, they are two different instances. Your future starts now, so get into that bus and be the boss. Move your life where you want it to be, and the next time you fail, be glad that you tried, rise up and try again, and some day, you will be proud of who you have become. PEACE!!!!

Lets Take Chances!!!

So I come today with a different message, not the one we used to know, the one that caresses our laziness and nurses our unwillingness to work. Everyday different campaigns come up with claims of fighting for the right of women. I do not have a problem with that. But how do we women help ourselves.

I go out there everyday and see women think less of themselves, relenting at every slight obstacle, yet we tell the men that we are at par with them, not until westart taking responsibility for our action, strive for excellence, think out logical solutions to problems, work hard towards achieving a course, get empowered, and help to empower others, will we be able to gain the audience on the table of parity.

I am a feminist with a difference, not one to caress your lazy bones, and give you slots even when you are unqualified, but one to feed you with truth and challenge you to do more. We shouldn't be taught to be given chances, rather, we should learn to take chances. I stand for peace.

MY MESSAGE TO THE WORLD!!!

Can you just Listen!!!!

My name is Amarachi Musa Obafemi. I am a beauty to the world, I came for a mission of Love to the world, give me a chance. Listen to what I have to say. Treat me more as human and not as a slave. I have more value than to be in the kitchen, I can be creative beyond cooking, I have an initiative of fire, but just let me put it to use. Send me to school and let me decide a future for myself. Treat me like the child I am and not the bride am not ready to be. Allow me talk in family meetings, I also have contributions.

Daddy, do you remember when I was born? How you told family members about my arrival, with the least excitement in the world. How you first looked at me like I forced myself into your family. Just in case you don't remember, I heard you pray to God about the family finances, then he sent me to liberate you. Could you give me a chance at what I was sent here for? You see me as rebellious because I have refused to toll the path of convention. I am a sweet soul asking to be heard. I know my mission to earth and I will achieve it by every available good means.

Hear me out because I have got something to say!!!